Bitterness Besets Me

While scavenging through my roll of blogs the other day, I came across something that made me laugh and think all at the same time.  Bossip did a "Quote of The Day" on Melanie Brown in which she says about her new love:

“He’s the love of my life and I’m going to marry him. Stephen’s been a godsend. Eddie hasn’t been in touch once since I had the baby, it’s unbelievable. But Stephen has been a tower of strength. Stephen’s got a much bigger c**k as well!”

tsk tsk Mel B.  This is from the same woman who said she had planned to marry him.  So apparently the d8ck size couldn't have been that monumental of an issue if you were going to wake up to it every morning for the rest of your life.   But  why is this the card that  a lot of women play after a nasty breakup and most importantly, why do you trash your ex after it's over?  To hear about the endless blissfulness of a relationship that was ongoing for two years to all of a sudden hearing things like he was a liar, a cheater, the sex was bad, I didn't really feel that deeply about him anyway reflects badly on the bearer of these words.  It shows that either you were stupid to stay in a relationship for that long knowing that all these things were going on and it only ended because the other person ended it or that you are stretching the truth because you're hurt.

And do things like this (putting his lack of manhood on blast) really hurt a man?  I guess if it's true then it would but I would hope by now that people realize it's just a silly ploy to mask one's true feelings.  I've also heard that eluding to the fact that a man doesn't have a lot of money is another tactic as well in which case you just come off looking like a gold digger and yet and still, you were with his broke azz. 

And women aren't the only ones guilty of the bitter quotes.  I think men mainly use it in the face of embarrassment such as the classic case when a man tries to spit his top-notch game at a female only to get shot down.  You know what he says to that: "F8ck you bitch, you not that fine anyway."  Boy stop.  I was clearly fine enough to get your attention.   Comments such as this only make me mad for about a half a second and then I'm on my merry way.  I think it would take much more to hurt me, like "Your writing sucks."  But that's just me.

So the next time your ex goes on one of these tirades, just nod, smile, and keep it moving because you both know what the real deal is.

Comments

[E aka your favorite trapper]

lol

It's funny how getting rejected or dumped will make the person, get real mad and start making accusations and saying insults they don't belive.

[Chentastic]

I think men/women both play the "you sucked" card in an attempt to cover up for their own faults but it never works. For Mel to say his cock was small means she was satisfied w/ his small cock, and if she was satisfied w/ it, it was assuredly b/c his pockets were cushioned plenty...something she would probably rather not comment on until they're in child support hearings. And, it's not like she left him...he flipped on her! I read a quote from her recently, where she is cleverly referring to his rumored down-low life style. Now, if she knew he was down-low, and witnessed "people" strolling in and out during all hours of the night: she was either right in the mix w/ all of it, or quietly suffering through it (ie, being stupid)..at least until the hole-y condoms finally worked. CHA-CHING!

So yeah, you said a mouthful:
It shows that either you were stupid to stay in a relationship for that long knowing that all these things were going on and it only ended because the other person ended it or that you are stretching the truth because you're hurt.

Ms. Mel can say whatever she wants cause there is little worse for a woman than to be single, knocked-up, publicly aired out and ignored...not matter what amount of $ is involved.

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